“as the famous oscar wilde said “to be natural is such a very difficult pose to keep up.” don’t let others put thought in your mind. don’t compare yourself to others. if you think you’re just okay to yourself then thats fine because to others you are great and not anything less. don’t settle for advice, opinions, comparisons from others because you yourself control your own life and decisions. funny how i think i should reread this and take my own advice (perhaps i will). i started with a quote and i’ll end with one, in memory of his birthday yesterday, “be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - dr. seuss”